The best, most effective way to handle abuse, for both men and women, is to nip it in the bud. If they accidentally choose a man who won't ever beat them, they will make his life miserable and then abandon him. Most importantly, they actively select only men that will beat them. Then, they try to condition the man to hit them on a regular basis. Physical abuse of the man is also very common. The most common form of this is to be as disrespectful of the man as possible, especially in public. Women tend to engage in protracted campaigns to get their partner to abuse them. Men who do this tend to get drunk/high and then make up an excuse to beat their wives (substance abuse is a big, BIG part of abuse).

The people who do it will onlydo it if it is safe to do so.

It has sadistic and masochistic qualities. It is a weak, evil person attempting to make themselves feel better by inflicting suffering on another. This is the animal part of us refusing to be caged anymore. Passion tends to leap out at odd times into unpredictable behaviour. What makes this joke funny is that both men and women in lust, yell, hit each other, throw things around and say nasty things to each other. There was this very funny joke on Star Trek the Next Generation, where Worf makes a comment that Klingon women like to throw heavy objects (with this introverted, lustful expression). Bonecrker #1 - Abusive Behaviour The struggle for dominance is a natural and normal part of human sexuality.

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